Make it Work: The Colored Skinny Jean

Now I'm not a huge fan of colored pant fan (they bring more attention to my bottom half than I'd like), but I will acknowledge the fact I've seen many people pull the look off! Dying to add some color to you bottom wardrobe this Spring, without looking like you're on your way to Justin Bieber concert? I highly suggest pairing the pants with a neutral top, like the image below

Topshop polyester shirt
$64 - topshop.com


Topshop skinny leg jeans
$80 - topshop.com


Wet Seal floral heels
$35 - wetseal.com


Oasis vintage style handbag
$36 - oasis-stores.com


Chanel black earrings
malleries.com

The Problem With Plus Sized Fashion

Would YOU wear this?

It's not hard to tell that I love fashion. I majored in fashion merchandising in college so that I could one day work in fashion, I read sites like Business of Fashion and Fashionista to get my fashion news fix, and I shop excessively, looking for pieces that I can add to expanding wardrobe. And to piggyback off of that last statement, my options are making me sick.

"You work, where?"...The Post-Grad Struggle

Don't believe the hype.

I sashayed across the stage and shook my department chair's hand on May 20, 2011, and on December 11, 2011, I took my last undergrad exam (long story short- I got screwed over and ended up taking an extra class).  The week leading up to graduation, I remember hearing Marvin Sapp's "Never Would Have Made It" and bursting into tears, reflecting on the woman I've transitioned into these past 4 years. I started college as a socially awkward and naive 17 year old that only wore flip flops and Air Forces and emerged as a confident, self sufficient, and socially aware 21 year old (with a much better wardrobe, I might add). I cried because one chapter of my life had ended, another would soon begin; one that included a salaried job, a new car and a place of my own.

Or I so thought.

Single Black female, in search of...

Why am I single?


That's a question I've asked myself more times than I'd care to remember. My relationship status is something that has given me a sense of empowerment while making me feel lonely and insecure at the same time. I've learned to be completely self-sufficient and independent, but every time I like a guy and he doesn't offer me that courtship, I start to second guess myself.

What did I do wrong? Is it because I weigh more than 200 lbs? Is it my natural hair? Did I give it up too soon? WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME? 


I can honestly say that I have been single for 99.9% of my life. I was asked out my freshman year of high school, and it lasted for a week (he kissed another girl, and I wasn't playin that shit). Since then, I've lead myself into a downward spiral of men that have used me by giving me a false sense of entitlement in order to obtain whatever they wanted from me (I don't have to tell you what that mostly consisted of). Basically, I've sold myself short...instead letting these men see me for the bright, funny and ambitious person I am, I turned myself into nothing more but a vagina with money and a set of car keys. Notice the main focus of this post is I, because I had the power to stop this, but I was too naive to realize my own strength, until now.

I am no longer that person. I know what am I capable of and what I deserve. Until I get it, I'll continue to accept that dreaded "s" word, and work through my issues with the opposite. And I hope my fellow single women will do the same. You are as beautiful, smart and deserving as you think you are; don't ever let anyone tell you different.

xoxoAmber

NYFW Betsey Johnson Spring '12

Up until this point, I've been selecting one look from several fashion shows and categorizing them by the show date, but after I saw this show I had to stop: I couldn't simply pick one look! I'm a huge fan of Betsey Johnson; I love her carefree spirit, the way she incorporates music and vintage themes into her collections, and the fact she's a 69 year old woman still running her brand! This new collection has to be one of my favorites; it screams "Parisian sexy" while still giving off her trademark punk rock feel. Take a look for yourself

My Picks: Spring '12 New York Fashion Week, Day Four

Victoria Beckham

Derek Lam

Tracy Reese

My Picks: Spring '12 New York Fashion Week, Day Three

Monique Lhuillier

Duro Olowu

Vivienne Tam